- Posted
- Nov 5th 2008
- Mood
- Confused
I met a girl ok? this girl...is pretty, nice, she have likes like me....but...I liked her time ago, actually I only consider her a friend..now she's saying me things...about she wants with me....
the problem, and the reasons I dislike her as girlfriend is:
1.- she already has a daughter 3 years old...( I...can take care of her daughter (even love her daughter) but Im not ready to be "step-father" or pay things for her kid. Im really not ready...Im still studying and I want to study more in the future.
2.- the girl is...Unstable...she has broken with boys quickly. the relation doesn't get along with her. I'll be nervous because someday...she'll break up with me and I will be hurt. or maybe she can fool me with another person after a long time.
3.- she's from other state, we study in the same classroom, but she leaves the weekend at her state...always.
4.- She is like a leader....she will take me like a slave I guess :S I don't know really
in fact, whem we talk, we are connected and we have fun...but I think she is feeling something I lost someday before...
I..actually love other girl of my classroom, but this girl won't like me because she and my friends are trying to get couple, so I doesn't want to interfere with them.
I don't know what to do...I don't have a cheap relation nor lose my friendship with the other 2 guys
Hellucard Says:
It's a trap, she needs a man cuz shes poor.
Just kiddin
Phredryk Says:
i'ts probably best not to get involved for all your reasons stated above
i'm just going to take a stab, but, she probably needs someone to help pay for the kid so she can have her active lifestyle that you believe she has. and will probably run around on you
i dont get involved with people for the soul reason of not wanting to be hurt in the end, because it friggen blows
shadefalcon Says:
Well bro, you could take a chance if you really care about her enough, the kid shouldn't matter if you care about her. If it would bother you to possibly be a step-father someday then I advise against it. Also, you have to ask yourself then, is the attraction to her simply physical or emotional, and or both? Many factors to be considered here, but you must not let fear of "being hurt" hold you back. Do what feels right in your heart my friend, only you can make this descision.
God Bless
Shade
Shadowii2 Says:
If you don't love that person for real, it would be better you don't.
Sure, you can be a friend with her, but someone with such an attitude of breaking up easily I wouldn't really be interested to be in love.
But this is up to you, but think twice before taking an act.
If the answer is you do like her, try it out but prepare for possible break up.
If the answer is you don't like her, try saying that a way that she wouldn't get depressed.
Sonucais Says:
Sin sacrificio nunca consigues nada de lo que no estas seguro. Lánzate y si las cosas van mal no te tienes que herir porque la que se tendrá que herir es ella por perder estar preciosa persona. Y si van bien no significa que debas casarte o tener hijos hasta una cierta edad. Ten en cuenta las putadas que le hizo a otros chicos y amenazala alguna vez con dejarla para ver lo mucho que le importas.
Suerte!
Sonucais Says:
Uy... no leà que tenia hijos... Pues yo dirÃa que se fura a tomar por culo la zorrita, la verdad.
Medjai Power Says:
Wait a while and see what happens. Best thing to do is find a child less girl.
7upSpriter Says:
La verdad, contal de que te guste en cualquier forma y que quieras y te guste pasar tiempo con ella.. yo creo que deberias darle una oportunidad. Yo, personalmente, no lo haria, pero para ti es totalmente diferente. Esto es un consejo de un niño de 14, y yo tampoco lo tomaria
. Pero has lo que tu creas correcto.
gorillaz Says:
well I dont know what you should do with the girl youre friends are involved with but the other girl... Well i dont think you should date her because it seems like a lot of drama will come along if you do. Even more then youre friends girlfirned. Because you cant support the girls daughter and you have a life to look forawrd to you need to study to recieve a better job/life. Long distance relationships dont work out trust me ive been down that road before. Hope this helps